Communication
Planted 02023-03-10
Scales of culture
From The Culture Map by Erin Meyer
- Communicating: low-context vs. high-context
- Evaluating: direct negative feedback vs. indirect negative feedback
- Persuading: principles-first vs. applications first
- Leading: egalitarian vs. hierarchical
- Deciding: consensual vs. top-down
- Trusting: task-based vs. relationship-based
- Disagreeing: confrontational vs. avoids confrontation
- Scheduling: linear-time vs. flexible-time
Scales of communication culture
- Good faith vs Bad faith
- Wait vs Interrupt (in synchronous communication)
- Asynchronous first vs Synchronous first
- Reveal vs Infer
- Explicit vs Implicit
Good faith vs Bad faith
| Good faith | Bad faith |
|---|---|
| Humility and curiosity | Hubris and lack of curiosity in opposing views |
| Update position based on new information | Refuse changes in position based on new information |
| Disagreements welcomed; group learning valued | Disagreements unwelcomed; consensus overstated |
| Steelman the position of others | Strawman the position of others |
| Respectly disagree | Disrespectfully disagree |
| Sufficient time given to open discussion | Insufficient time given to open discussion |
| Use careful clarifications and evidence | Avoid or omit careful clarifications and evidence |
| Attempt to find shared base realities and values | No attempt to find shared base realities and values |
| Emergence of new positions, integrations, and nuance | Emergence of stalemates, polarization, and simplifications |
Wait vs Interrupt
- Do not interrupt (vs) Interrupt when you understand
- Speak briefly (vs) Speak until I interrupt
- Use physical cues to indicate understanding and desire to speak (vs) Use physical cues to indicate when I should continue talking
| I interrupt | I wait for you to finish | |
|---|---|---|
| I let you interrupt | The Church of Interruption | The Meek |
| I will say my piece no matter what | Barkers | The Church of Strong Civility |
Asynchronous first vs Synchronous first
- Do not expect an immediate response (vs) Expect an immediate response
- Respond on your own time (vs) Must be present to respond
- Respond when it works best for you (vs) Everyone is tied to the same schedule
Reveal vs Infer
- When you want something I trust you to ask for it (vs) When you want something I trust you will give me hints to notice and interpret.
- If I make a request that doesn’t make sense to you, I trust you to refuse it (vs) I trust you to notice my hints to what I want and provide or offer it if possible.
Explicit vs Implicit
- State what may be obvious, but is often not to everyone (vs) Holding back statement that seem obvious to you, but may not be obvious to everyone else
- Focus on reducing ambiguity (vs) Do not focus on reducing ambiguity
Confidence level
For expressions of likelihood or probability, use one of the following sets of terms. Source: Intelligence Community Directives 203: Analytic Standards
| Probability Term | Synonym | Percentage Range |
|---|---|---|
| almost no chance | remote | 01-05% |
| very unlikely | highly improbable | 05-20% |
| unlikely | improbable (improbably) | 20-45% |
| roughly even chance | roughly even odds | 45-55% |
| likely | probable (probably) | 55-80% |
| very likely | highly probable | 80-95% |
| almost certain(ly) | nearly certain | 95-99% |
Note causes of uncertainty ( e.g., type, currency, and amount of information, knowledge gaps, and the nature of the issue) and explain how uncertainties affect analysis (e.g., to what degree and how a judgment depends on assumptions)
Scales of communication needs
From diátaxis
- Acquisition vs Application
- Action vs Cognition
| need | addressed in | the user | the documentation |
|---|---|---|---|
| learning | tutorials | acquires their craft | informs action |
| goals | how-to guides | applies their craft | informs action |
| information | reference | applies their craft | informs cognition |
| understanding | explanation | acquires their craft | informs cognition |
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